31th July 2010..

today... wake up 11am..
then play dota gok!! == ( wasting time nia... useless of me..)
afternoon after lunch.. go to B.P. buddhist temple to teach kidnagarden kids...
erm.. then bek to room... play dota... watch movie... do math...

30th July 2010.

this day nothing special happen...
After the class.. i go to Melaka... b4 tat.. i accompany CCL waiting the bus... at the bus stop..
to melaka take 2 hours... to do the process about Amway of CCTan..
GO there n bek directly... 1pm go there n bek at 9..
i learn something there... n noe melaka better..
the process is successful finish.. n finally i done my responsible on CCTAn..
bek to room n play dota.. today do nothing la.. ==

大哥教小弟如何交女朋友

1，现在很多男孩挑女朋友，直接就看身材啊，长相啊，家境啊... 这是很肤浅的，也很愚蠢的。因为一切都会变。女人老了.. 看上去都差不多，身材会走样，而且家里的钱也有花完的一天。

如果想挑以后能给自己幸福生活（包括物质和性爱）的女生，直接就看她对你好不好。只有当一个女生死心塌地地对你好的时候，她才会主动，有动力去为你拼搏与付出。

现在，那些不求上进的女生，有哪几个是非常专一的爱男朋友的？反之，那些非常爱男朋友的女生，有几个是没男人不能过活的？！可以说，爱情和本性，是相辅相成的，息息相关的！！

所以，我当年挑你大嫂，一个重要原因，就是她和我之间的感情很深，我们彼此相爱。


2，我插嘴：这么说，大哥，大嫂对你好，你们相爱？

相爱是必要的。男人跟女人不一样，很多时候越是在乎女生的男生越是不懂表达，不知道怎么对她好。男人不去搞什么送花啊、大众面前接吻啊，搞浪漫的那一套，不代表他对她不好。而女人是感性动物，她们喜欢浪漫，要求心灵上的满足感和喜悦感。所以，她们不能拿女人的浪漫标准去要求男人。这会累死男人的。在乎女人的男人，不一定会天天讨好女人。相反的，在乎男人的女人也不会为了男人而百般打扮，只为了营其他的注意。男人与女人交往，应真诚，成熟，真心地表达感情和想法。


3， 我：“那怎么看那女人对我好不好，真不真呢？”

有人在乎你，关心你，怎么你都不会知道吗？！


4，我：“那.. 除了死心塌地，还有别的标准衡量真心的方法吗？”

有啊。一般来说一心一意爱你的女人自然会注重你的存在，在意你，各方面…… “门当户对？”也是很重要，虽然很老土。

两个人来自不同家庭背景，以后会有很多沟通和相处的障碍。不是看家境富不富有，主要是说家庭教育、成长过程、家庭环境、经历的不一，以后过的好不好...

不只是家境。家庭环境、教育、学历……你们的条件差太多、双方中那个弱的都会有些自卑。在家你们会遇到没有话语权的问题，不会太幸福…… 他跟你完全没有共同的语言，话题和习性。这样一来多难受，你也很委屈; 她也委屈。


我：“沟通一下就好了吗！！”

那不是很费吗？！没必要为别人改变自己，也没必要去改变别人。仗着你对她好，她对你好，强行去改变习惯，没必要！！


5，我：“大哥，这么多年了，你们不会担心对方乱搞吗？”

不担心啊。不管男人女人再怎么变，本质在那里。会乱搞的，一般之前都有迹象的，就能看出来。这种人你最好不要找就是了。找异性朋友，要一次性找个好的，而不是事后去纠正。

我：“可是人会变啊，万一以后变坏，变心了……”

这种可能性不太大，都说了，本质不太会变的。不过要是这种人真让你遇上了，那就离呗。男人又不是为女人而活的！！相反的女人没了男人也能过活！！

而且你平时自己也要多学学好，婚姻也是门学问。你做好了，一般上，她也不会乱搞。
你如果找了个会乱搞的回来，我没眼看你了！

总之，婚姻需要经营，它也是门学问。平时，男生女生应多学学！你男生这一方做好了，另一方一般也会好～

6，我：“女人爱当醋坛子，是吗？”

对吧... 可是男人也可以是醋坛子。 你是吗？！当醋坛子真是不好。
一来活得憋屈。你得时时提防着对方会乱搞。男人女人要活得有尊严，活得骄傲。你时时刻刻心挂着，担心着她会乱搞。你活得高兴吗？！他过得好吗？！
二来，活得累。你累他也累。爱情里需要信任，婚姻里也需要。


我急：“那如果有男的跟他特别粘乎，怎么办呢！”

你没认真听我说话嘛。要是他对你真的好，就不会跟别的男人粘乎。如果他真的对别的男的粘得很靠近，你也不要以牙还牙，跟她赌气，跟别的女人胡搞！！


7，我：大哥，什么样的女人不能找？

太野蛮，不讲道理还强词夺理的不能找。这种女人会破坏你们之间的幸福，会不尊重你的意见，不尊重你的存在。


8，哎呀，这都几点了，你废话真多。（冤枉啊，都是您在讲……）

好吧，最后给一句。

交男女朋友是门学问，挑要当终身伴侣的男朋友更是学问。但是前面的一切都有一个前提，就是你自己要做好。你先做好一个值得女生去对你好的男生，然后才能有资格去挑别人。自己不行，还对女生要求那么高，那不是好男生。

你自己好好读书，修身养性。脾气要好。性格要好。你自己做好了，别愁了？

快去睡，睡晚了脸色差，你更找不到女朋友了！！

29 July 2010

Today wake up n go class as usual la.. nothing special.. Jus today de class can free sikit...
Mr. vilayen let us go eat breakfast n i bek late le... Then Mr. Raof dint enter class n i waste sikit time waiting there.. After tat play Dota when bek to room...
Erm.. afternoon.. Ya afternoon.. CCl n Ivonne trap outside their room n need my help.. So i go down to give her the spare keys then direct go to class to wait..
At PS room A.. i see fairy sis alone there... Then.. the class is on le... n now i bek to room le...
Wanna watch movie le... ^^

Fall asleep.. till &pm.. then direct go to Buddhist meeting... Finally get the jawatan 查长...
My cousin come to find me n have a talk.. haha... ^^ we talk till 1.45am.... talk bout the big principles of live...

28th July 2010..

Wahaha... ^o^..
Today wake up 6.30 am... then wake again 7am.. after tat wake again 7.30 am.. finally wake at 7.50 am... 爽到!! bcos got class no lecturer... same as no class la...

Breakfast.. 1st time without CCL... Sad.. T.T
Can be say today morning section got class but no teacher la... but i learn something.. about BC..

Tired today... wanna sleep earlier.. Erm.. jusnow play dota on GG... the result so good...
then i oso got phone my darling... n we talk happily n i very enjoy it..
(although it spend me RM 5)

Doing Vijayen presentation.. ==!!! I suddently noe tat... Not every thing can be fair de..
I sad n feel unfair tonight.. From this week.. i do the most presentation n they are so free... But tis is nothing la... i noe tat i willing to do it myself.. I cant n I not blaming them...
BUT today... the presentation of Mr. Vijayen... present 2ml... I worry n scare... try to do the best.. n i divide the works to all the group members... Fair??! NO !!
I feel unfair someone can go here.. go there for his own works... although he say SORRY le...

T.T ...

27th July 2010

Today so tired lar... Early morning go for the Volley ball class... Tired playing Volley ball..
Then go for breakfast.. eat 1 roti canai planta n 1 roti canai telur.. After tat direct go C15, Lim de MT class... Argue about MT question there.. ^^v finally sir oso agree v my thinking n wanna me to prove it out...

Afternoon, after done the handout of presentation.. Rush to EL class... Be a one hour child.. learning the skill of doing paper bird n paper wind car...

After tat go to exercise.. play volley ball again.. TIRED !!!
Dinner... so tired le.. dint bath lagi, direct sleep awhile... Do some presentation works.. n calling Daling... ^o^ hohoho.. 爽到 !!

26th July 2010

Wake up in the early morning.. Go to the stupid assembly n sleep there while listen to president speech.. ^^ haha....

Then go to the stupid n meaningless PPN class... So useless de lecturer teaching nonsense.. n talk some thing idiot !!! WAste my TIME !!! On the El class.. presentation do on spot.. n present directly.. so cool n so man !!! but lecturer wan the handout n we dun hav... so have to present next time lagi... BAck to room play Dota... ^_^ kill 30 n die 3... bos of CCTAN.. i die the 1st time...

WAT KAO!!! i suddently baru noe tat i really useless.. not the useless la.. I mean tat i have no 一技之长...
Go to the LIm MT class, baru i noe tat i not so good in MT.. compare to the others.. I do every thing slower than others.. I count slower than ppl.. i think slower than ppl... i do the MT slower than ppl.. I listen to the lecturer, but understand slower than ppl.. n sometime i even cant catch the point!!! I SLOWER than ppl !!!

I must be stronger n more tough.. I WANNA BE STRONG !!!

Haiz.. from 5pm till 8pm do nothing... Jusnow wanna do MT de.. but dunnoe how to do.. Rest awhile on the bed.. then fell asleep le.. SIAN !!! ==!!

Haha... ^^V I finish the EL.. poem le... i do most n i do my own...
but aredy 11.13pm le... use a lot of time to do.. n the works i satisfied la... dunnoe how n wat comment of 2ml lecturer.. Puan Interah..

Play Dota.. 104 minutes... kill may be 20 n die 12..